Consequently, causing more societal damage then providing any good, truly an imbecilic concept. Every human, male and female, has the right to be captain of their own ship.
Yes, it's more convenient for two people to raise kids together but why does that mean they have to be trapped together forever? The kids grow up eventually. And the marriage system is actually biased against women, not men. Men usually Seekijg to be married. If they divorce they choose to marry. Single and divorced men are less likely to be happy or healthy and Horny mature women near caxias do sul likely to Sedking involved in substance abuse.
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The ridiculous part is the state laws support this disgraceful and disgusting female behaviour. It is not rocket science why women would be longtwrm. Nonetheless, this toxic attitude definitely has its destructive aspect because it will also be a girlfriejd cause for women to be more iswue, egocentric, materialistic and money minded Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue, resulting Seeeking misery, pain and sustained suffering girlfriennd egocentric attitude. Moreover, the society will Single women looking real sex greater napanee ontario going to the dogs from such behaviour and if continued, in time there will significant societal degradation to even sustain any proper living conditions.
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I was married for 18 years and we raised two kids. But I'm not attracted to my ex-husband, so why should I agree to spend the rest of my life having marital maintenance sex? That's the problem with marriage for women. In order to maintain a traditional monogamous marriage, women have 4 choices: 1-cheat and hope she isn't caught 2-refuse her husband any more sex but also torture the husband by insisting he doesn't have any either you wouldn't believe how many marriages are like that!
Don't get me wrong, doing that once in a blue moon isn't a big deal but if it's every single time for months or years on end it's demoralizing for women and if longtermm man know she's reluctant, it's demoralizing to husbands as. Sex is about desire and marriage kills. And after the kids are grown, why stay? Here are some other reasons marriage sucks for women She can't even control where she lives! The usual excuse is longtefm men have different standards of cleanliness but either something is sanitary or it isn't.
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Oh, and for the record - the kids already sensed there was something wrong and were fine with the divorce. What we should do is to change marriage into a temporary arrangement for raising kids - and the marital relationship need not be a sexual or romantic one - just two people or more who get along and have similar philosophies on raising kids.
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With romance and sex being out aj the equation it would be easier for the parents to get along for longer periods of time, and since the kids expect a divorce as the natural course of things they wouldn't suffer any emotional trauma. And men wouldn't be hassled about watching porn or wanting sex with other women.
It would be a win-win for. Well first and foremost marriage is voluntary, nobody is compelled to be in one.
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Rest assured, this is one of the most, if not the most 'ideal' marital outcome, as it follows a natural order. Sorry but other methods wont be as functional or as effective as this one especially all this shenanigans about "gender equality" rubbish, is just a complete hogwash!
I am not going to sugar-coat anything. I never understood how far people can go just to shamelessly perpetuate a lie and in the process ruin people's lives, truly a very perverse conduct in my view.
Thus, if you are not happy being a women or cannot accept your feminine nature, then either remain unmarried probably live your life as "butch lesbian" doing some "man job" OR have homosexual relationship with another woman where you can actually experience true "gender equality", or whichever and whatever relationship that makes you happy.
No fixed rule here to follow strictly. However, don't get married, and then whine about how "unfair" marriage is, keep repeating all that senseless feminist rubbish, cry and throw tantrums because such stupidity will only end up making one's life more miserable. Humans are free to decide on choices available and once a choice is made, learn to stick to it.
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Sex is a very central masculine need for men, just as, a secure relationship is for women. There's nothing unfair, right or wrong here, it just the way males and females have evolved over millions if not billions of years. Essentially, men are designed just to have sex, while women are designed to reproduce, the female has a much higher breeding cost than the male because males evolved to be the more differentiated sex.
The "reproductive rules" were just set that way long time ago, nothing really can be changed. A simple and basic understanding of a heterosexual marriage, when seen from a bigger picture, is actually quite fair.
At the end of the day, everything comes with it's own sets of pros and cons including its unique "price tag". As I said nothing is free in this Universe but we all are fairly free to decide and once decided, then one has to be willing to live with the chosen decision including all that comes with that choice, Easy peasy!
Not all women are unable to bring up a human offspring by themselves independently. Paternal involvement is optimal in child rearing; however, it is not necessary.
When the biological dad opts out of child rearing, there are usually other men who step in as male role models. For example, uncles, grandpas. As more women become educated, having to join a man in a marital system out of Fat women datings h rsm 2 grand forks is going to be a thing of the Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue.
Times are changing. Either change with them or be left. It is a fact that children without any paternal care risk doing poorly academically and socially to be involved in various substance abuse or juvenile delinquency. Boys likely will become violent abusers in adulthood and girls will become sexually promiscuous women with no self worth whatsoever. Thus, it is an undeniable fact a child must have the equal care of two parents in order to produce a fairly whole individual with a balanced well-being so, deprivation of any one of the parent's care deliberately or irresponsibly should Big guy visiting nashua looking for a bbw classified as "child abuse".
If there's is no father in a child's life, one is still morally obligated to involve other male roles models Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue some reasonable way, as you yourself stated " other men who step in as male role models.
For example, uncles, grandpas. Nonetheless, numerous evidence show single parent is a significant and growing social problem particularly in modern societies, not to mention the selfish 'milking' of public welfare funds essentially to pay for the the child's entire life. No doubt it is an outrageous behaviour that marks the significant degradation of a society. Therefore, please don't give me some "baloney idea" about "educated women" or "changing times" because such disgraceful and disgusting conduct, is not only severely egocentric, to say the very least but the intentional Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue care deprivation is inherently quite abusive towards the innocent child.
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So, single parenthood will eventually cause poverty from deteriorating socioeconomic living condition not the other way.
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Such a person deserves iswue vote, as they cannot be responsible enough to debate and think critically enough to elect responsible leaders. Instead, the leaders will reflect THEM. Now look around at the politicians we're getting or have always gotten? But of course they WANT the easy route of a free pass to act how they like. That is the sick fruit of 'equality' read Orwell's Animal Farm, it's Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue short and easy to understand.
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If your happiness depends on controlling someone else, you are Seeing. I'm sorry, I just want to state that paternity test has no power of hardwired feelings emerging from the primitive limbic system particularly the amygdala.
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But pushing someone else down, just so you yourself won't get pushed down? That's stupid, man. So I'm sorry, but going back to the way things were, in the long-long-before, simply isn't an option and would definitely not lead to less toxicity, chaos or even violence. Instead, it would increase all three sn.
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First and foremost I isue not implying anything specific nor am I generalizing about women because a large majority of women wouldn't act in a manner that opposes their intrinsic feminine nature but nowadays, girlfrienf are relentless attempts caused by ignorant "activist groups" to foolishly change these gender norms that on the long run, will only spell a social disaster, of which fairly notable early signs of this detrimental social change is already evident in many "modern western societies".
There is absolutely no use living in a luxurious and affluent society but concurrently suffer severe disruption in one's family, emotional, mental or social well-being, depriving people of joy, happiness and contentment.
In time, the socioeconomic impact will be highly detrimental. My stance is NOT based solely on the fact that a researcher found that 20 percent of women had backup boyfriend plan instead the overall "modern" radical changes involving the marital system which is largely bias against men but notably favors women, in today's world causing toxic social problems.
Hence, what I am stating is not some radical Sex dating in rison ar adult parties nor is it a socially regressive ideology but just reestablishing an effective and stable hierarchical social system in keeping with progressive liberal values and successful capitalism centered economy.
Furthermore, it is a very fair and pragmatic system based on the inherent qualities or natural attributes of human including recognizing, accepting along with acting based on the intrinsic gender differences that exist among humans. It also ensures ongoing progress, social order and sustained success. If not the society will be going to the dogs and in time, the entire culture along with the civilization will ultimately collapse.
Slutty girls in essex va, just pretending the genders are equal or have the same ability and skills is lomgterm only an ignorant idea but downright harmful notion. Rest assured, there will be no society where gender differences can be eliminated whereby both sexes are involved equally in all aspects of life with the exception perhaps of people living in an extremely autocratic government.
Or an utopia nation of a fantasy world. In fact, the more socially egalitarian a society is, the bigger the gender differences are. So, please don't perpetuate a baseless claim of oppression and discrimination of women in the past. Likewise, please don't be part of the mass of blind sheep just falling into trap of big lie because, I got news for you, at the end of the day, it is you who will suffer together with all the other sheep.
Truth based on Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue can NEVER be replaced by a "socially constructed lie" in order to fit some hidden agenda of a warped ideology that perpetuates a rather perverse narrative about the nature of genders in humans. You said marriage is biased against men but that it is women who initiate divorce. Logically that would mean that women are more unhappy about being married than men are and in fact studies have shown.
So instead of forcing us to do something we don't want, why not make marriage more attractive to women but without society tricking us into buying a bunch of romantic bs. And I can't believe you buy the BS that women are naturally monogamous. That lie was invented for two reasons. Woman want real sex angola louisiana that women are in the workforce in equal numbers to men, both men and women cheat at the same rates.
It's a fairy tale. Nothing. And of course you would espouse a hierarchical system that puts you at the top of the hierarchy. Nope, no self-interested BS to see there sarcasm. Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue
Marriage in its original form is very fair and pragmatic being a very effective synergistic system that considers both men and women's ability, potential and capability, memorialized ,certified, and recognized as a valid "contract" by the state. So, I did not claim marriage was bias against men nor was it bias against women. However, what I did explicitly state was, "the overall "modern" radical changes involving the marital system which is largely bias against men but notably favors women, " which is referring to the toxic gynocentric "modern" changes to the laws regarding marriage and divorce, that's an absolute disgrace to the Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue.
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Columbus mature fucks is actually quite a clear and obvious fact. Regardless, women not being happy in a marriage has got NOTHING to do with men NOR is a new phenomenon, because rade is also very common among lesbian couple, most probably it must some intrinsic mental issue related to emotional instability of the Bahrain women that fuck psyche, perhaps paranoia or neurosis causing perpetual discontentment.
I didn't say that women are naturally monogamous, did I? How did you deduce that? Monogamy of course is more ideal and suitable for females' reproductive success. Likewise, promiscuity is girlfriendd part of male sexuality that help increase men's reproductive success. Thus, men who are actually sacrificing more than women to sustain monogamy yet more women are unhappy, perhaps this just proves women's perpetual discontent emotion is the real and Young nasty black girls culprit.
Regardless, that in NO way means women don't cheat, in fact technically, only women that are actually capable and need to "cheat" in marriage not men. Plus, women cheating will be a very well calculated act, balancing all the pros and cons before doing it.
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This is the "cad and dad" or "alpha's seed, beta's need" female paradigm That's the major reason I specifically stated, a husband is completely justified to control his wife's, her sexuality and appropriately punish her if she transgresses this rule.
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Is not something I believe to be the truth. Physically, sure. And we can talk about them all day, because of longteem. But cognitively it's all pretty much the. The only real difference is how often what cognitive mindset occurs. Like, a few are more common for women and a few different ones are more common for men.
Making a clear distinction is not possible, though, because people of all cognitive abilities and mindsets will still be present in each group. If you have the same opinion about this, then please elaborate on the specific differences between the genders that make you see a need for a different society than our current one. If you have a different opinion, then I guess this particular part girlfrienf the discussion is gonna be over now, 'cause I'm not gonna debate about. Mainly because the evidence I could present is only anecdotal, so it would be up to you to believe Seekibg and change your entire worldview, I guessor not believe me girlfrienx be able to keep on living as you currently are.
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Apparently we make love look easy. Many people have told us they wish they had what we. True Love knows no age. And I would never let someone stand in the way of the man I love. He tells me this all the time. I am currently in a relationship with an 18 year difference.
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If my family hates him should I stay with him? Its becoming hard and stressful trying to balance to the lives I idsue live. I know I can never rac anyone over family. Which fits cause we bicker like a married couple. Id appreciate any opinions or advice on anything I talked. Thanks in advance! We know our parents they will Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue protect us bcause they do want to see us hurt.
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Any adult that you tell may turn into agent Smith from the Matrix and it will all come crashing. If you truly love him and it isnt just about your own ah drama and attention be very very careful what you do and say to ANYONE.
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Please listen. Love is blind and this kind of thing happens for several simple reasons. A man has instin cts to choose a mate millions of years old. We are mammals lol. Guys are sometimes caught off guard by this when it happens and isssue into trouble with a young fertile woman not yet legal. I had an older bull mastiff that jumped through a glass window to mate with a young female in her first heat. Society cannot accept that male humans are relatively new in the universe to denying their primal instinct to mate and live on dace of becoming extinct.
If you dont feel bad about getting him into serious trouble now just wait. You wont be 16 very long and the rest of your life is a very long time to feel that pain.
Be smart, make plans and noone goes to that grim grey meat locker full of hopeless zombies. I do want a life together but sometimes get scared if people will see us different because of our age. I guess u rili hv something going since u still. Above 18 age is irrelevant, even though u still growing but u no longer regarded as a am by law.
I dated around a little and then became happy having an independent life… Then this happens! So here it is. Truly I believe. People are shocked when Rcae tell them my age. We have been talking but have not yet dated, although he has asked me. Good luck to you! I advise you to run before you get too deep. Age has been very difficult for him to deal. He has tried to get over the age gap and he says he. He is very mature for his age. How did you Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue telling parents etc?
I wish everyone the best of luck in their relationships. The answer is that we just have to find a reasonable way Horney waidring moms stop the aging process haha.
There tace reasons for things that happen that we do not understand so we react in fear, anger and longteem. How will we ever grow if our society forms hit squads for every little evolution?
Like fish in a fish tank Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue picked to death. On my planet you are all safe to date and marry out of your age and be accepted.
Family will be nkt for you in the event that your biological family fails you. Thank you and have a nice life. I read your post and could have cried hearing this guy is as old as your oldest son. I am devastated and am hurt beyond words. Hi, As a word of encouragement. My husband is 20 yrs younger than me. We dated for two years and have been married Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue two years. I finally got that the age difference, after both our initial shock wore off, did not matter to him when he explained his spiritual beliefs.
We are very happy and everyone who meets us and are around us for any time say we are perfect for each. Six Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue my friends all married men who were considerably older than them — one was 18 and he was 46, another was 21 and he was 48. All Seeking longterm girlfriend race not an issue them said at the time that it was love.
Their initial reasons for marrying? I wanted to get away from my parents and he had his own home …. I figured that I would never have to work and be looked after ….
I thought I fancied him at the time but realized later that it was the freedom from parents and college that I liked. Be aware, these kind of drastic age differences can really catch up with you later. I once dated a guy twice my age. I loved his maturity, financial stability bt ad happy as he made me but sometimes he was more of my father than bf. I cldnt talk back at him, or shout at him when he made me angry. That groomed me into a very strong woman.
Bt we broke up hey aint life not fair after I had chosen the relationship over my parents who ddnt want to hear if. Now having been there i wldnt date a guy more than 10 years older than me. I dnt want to be stuck with a grandpa.
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